This is a bit of a long one, but I feel as if so much has
happened today! I checked out and headed
down the street to Flinders Street Baptist church again. An older gentleman named Torrey came over
shortly after I had sat down and invited me up front to sit with him and his
wife Liz. She was very nice and I found
out that her husband is actually on staff at the church, he’s one of the
pastors. After the service she invited
me to the morning tea they have after church.
We talked for a bit and then she introduced me to a young woman from
Peru who is studying accounting here and hopes to eventually get
citizenship. They have 4 people being
baptized next week (or maybe the week after) and I met 3 of them (all Iranian)
– they sat at our table. The one next to
me was Hossein and he’s actually seeking asylum as a refugee. The other Iranian couple, Amir & Maryam,
are here while he studies Project Management at University. Hossein’s story is so crazy to me – people
think I’m brave for coming to Australia.
He is a Christian and his house church was raided one day
and he got put in jail. After his court
date he fled to Malaysia (I think, it was somewhere in SE Asia) and then ended
up on a boat to Australia. From what I
could understand his brother is a Christian as well, but he didn’t come with
him (he wasn’t arrested), so he came all by himself. Based on the things I’ve
read in the paper this last week, and from what information I gathered at the
migration museum, he’s got a tough road ahead.
The Australian government, at the moment, isn’t really granting asylum
to people. Some of them get put in
detention centers (not sure what else to call them) until the government
decides if they should get a visa.
Anyway, he didn’t speak any English when he got here 6 months ago, but I
think he’s doing pretty well with his English now, after such a short period of
time. He’s not allowed to work in the
country, but there’s some organization that’s helping him with a place to stay
and he’s “volunteering” (because he can’t legally work) doing some sort of
video surveillance stuff. I couldn’t
quite understand him, but he was pointing at the security cameras in the
church, so I don’t know if he installs them or what… He said he enjoyed talking to me because he
can actually understand me J He said he has trouble understanding
Australians even though we both speak English; he said I talk slower and don’t
use as much slang. It must be my time in
Japan, trying to communicate in the simplest English possible since I knew no
Japanese. Liz invited me to go back to
their house for lunch, but since Leslie hadn’t really given me a time when
she’d be picking me up I had to decline.
I was sitting at the hostel debating about whether I should walk to the library
or not, and I ended up chatting with Iliana for a bit. We had both checked out that morning, but
didn’t really have anywhere to be until the evening. About 15 minutes later Leslie called me to
say she would be there in 10 minutes.
It’s a 20 minute walk to the library, so it must have been a “God thing”
that I didn’t head out.
Leslie seems nice enough and her home, as she describes it,
is very posh; which is partly why she’s moving.
All the homes in her area are so nice, I love them! Most of them are quite old (late 1800’s) and
every one has such great architectural character, which I why I love them. I’m staying in this great little apartment
over her garage, so it’s nice to have a bit of privacy after staying in
hostels. I have to make it look like I’m
not actually living here since she’s got her house on the market and is having
open house; so I’m still basically living out of a suitcase, but at least I’m
not sharing with anyone. I think it’s going to be an interesting two
weeks. A friend was watching the boys
while she came to pick me up, and when we got back the friend told me “good
luck” with the boys. Yikes, that was NOT
what I wanted to hear. When Leslie told
her friend that I didn’t have much experience with kids they both laughed. On the
car ride Leslie mentioned that she wanted me to help at her father-in-law’s
farm for a few days doing some sort of garden work – at least I know I can
handle that. I might not like it, but it’s
not out of my realm. I guess he passed
away last year so she’s been taking care of that place too.
Apparently she doesn’t like to plan meals or cook (?) so she
wants me to think of things to make. I
told her I can follow a recipe in hopes that she would then just pick some
foods they like, but she said she wants me to decide. She said she has given up on trying figuring
out what to feed the boys. Man, I really
should have gotten a bit more information before I signed up for this; or
rather, she should have given a bit more information in her advertisement as
well. She seems easy going enough, but I
like rules and boundaries and knowing what is expected of me, so the lack of
that causes me a bit of stress. I know,
I know – but I’m a people pleaser and if you can’t please people if you don’t
know what they want from you! My dad
keeps telling me this (my time in Australia) is a growing experience, so I
guess these must be growing pains.
Cricket better watch out, I’m going to come home and be taller than him! After dinner we chatted for a bit and
although she seems a bit scatter-brained and her boys don’t always listen to
her that well, I’m feeling better about it than I was after the random meal
decision conversation. I’ll be doing
some cleaning tomorrow and then there’s an open house Tuesday. Over dinner she was talking about maybe
taking me up to the Flinder’s Ranges at some point and maybe even going all the
way up to Uluru in May and she’d be happy to take me along. If she gets the
house at the auction next week she said she might even be able to pay me to
help her move… Like I said, she’s a bit
scatter-brained so it’s hard to remember everything she’s telling me since it’s
scattered throughout other conversations.